Introduce `Clock.call_when_running(...)` to wrap startup code in a
logcontext, ensuring we can identify which server generated the logs.
Background:
> Ideally, nothing from the Synapse homeserver would be logged against the `sentinel`
> logcontext as we want to know which server the logs came from. In practice, this is not
> always the case yet especially outside of request handling.
>
> Global things outside of Synapse (e.g. Twisted reactor code) should run in the
> `sentinel` logcontext. It's only when it calls into application code that a logcontext
> gets activated. This means the reactor should be started in the `sentinel` logcontext,
> and any time an awaitable yields control back to the reactor, it should reset the
> logcontext to be the `sentinel` logcontext. This is important to avoid leaking the
> current logcontext to the reactor (which would then get picked up and associated with
> the next thing the reactor does).
>
> *-- `docs/log_contexts.md`
Also adds a lint to prefer `Clock.call_when_running(...)` over
`reactor.callWhenRunning(...)`
Part of https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/issues/18905
Currently we don't really have anything that stops us from deleting
state groups when an in-flight event references it. This is a fairly
rare race currently, but we want to be able to more aggressively delete
state groups so it is important to address this to ensure that the
database remains valid.
This implements the locking, but doesn't actually use it.
See the class docstring of the new data store for an explanation for how
this works.
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Co-authored-by: Devon Hudson <devon.dmytro@gmail.com>