Bulk refactor `Counter` metrics to be homeserver-scoped. We also add
lints to make sure that new `Counter` metrics don't sneak in without
using the `server_name` label (`SERVER_NAME_LABEL`).
All of the "Fill in" commits are just bulk refactor.
Part of https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/issues/18592
### Testing strategy
1. Add the `metrics` listener in your `homeserver.yaml`
```yaml
listeners:
# This is just showing how to configure metrics either way
#
# `http` `metrics` resource
- port: 9322
type: http
bind_addresses: ['127.0.0.1']
resources:
- names: [metrics]
compress: false
# `metrics` listener
- port: 9323
type: metrics
bind_addresses: ['127.0.0.1']
```
1. Start the homeserver: `poetry run synapse_homeserver --config-path
homeserver.yaml`
1. Fetch `http://localhost:9322/_synapse/metrics` and/or
`http://localhost:9323/metrics`
1. Observe response includes the `synapse_user_registrations_total`,
`synapse_http_server_response_count_total`, etc metrics with the
`server_name` label